Stabilize the Social Layer
Destabilization spreads socially.

Not everyone regulates you.
Some escalate you.
These tools help you identify relational containment versus relational amplification.



Tools in This Section
The Relational Containment Map
Discern stabilizers from escalators in your environment.
Boundary Calibration Map
Discern whether this burden yours to carry.
Emotional Load Distribution Check
Discern stabilizers from escalators in your environment.
When to Use This Section
• During interpersonal conflict
• After destabilizing conversations
• When seeking support
• When your emotional state worsens around specific people
Choose your field carefully.
Life.Understood.
Gerald Alba Daquila
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