The 4 Pillars of Stability (Quick Reference)

When overwhelmed, stabilize in order


1. Physiological Stability

Regulate the body first.
Sleep. Water. Breath. Movement.


2. Cognitive Clarity

Separate facts from projections.
Reduce variables. Delay irreversible decisions.


3. Relational Containment

Do not isolate.
Seek calm, not escalation.


4. Structural Anchoring

Reclaim micro-control.
Complete one small task.


Life.Understood.
Gerald Alba Daquila
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