Lessons from the Pandemic on Slowing Down, Reevaluating Values, and Rediscovering What Matters
Prepared by: Gerald A. Daquila, PhD. Candidate | Read Time: 12 mins
ABSTRACT
In an era defined by the relentless pace of the “rat race,” modern life often feels like a programmed sprint toward deadlines, distractions, and societal expectations. The COVID-19 pandemic, a global disruption, forced humanity to pause, offering a rare opportunity to reflect on how we spend our time and what truly matters. This dissertation explores why slowing down is so difficult, whether this difficulty signals misplaced values, and what lessons the pandemic may have taught us about living more mindfully.
Drawing from psychology, sociology, philosophy, and mindfulness studies, this work examines the cultural, systemic, and personal barriers to pausing and the transformative potential of practices like meditation and reflection. While the pandemic exposed the fragility of our frenetic lifestyles, it also revealed the resilience of human introspection. Yet, post-pandemic trends suggest a return to old habits, raising questions about whether we have truly learned to prioritize meaning over motion. This paper argues for a reorientation toward intentional living, challenging readers to integrate mindfulness into daily life to escape the rat race and align with deeper values.
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Introduction
We’ve all felt it: the gnawing pressure to keep moving, to check the next box, to scroll one more post, or to meet one more deadline. The “rat race”—a term that captures the endless, often meaningless pursuit of productivity, status, or distraction—has become the default rhythm of modern life. Even when we try to stop, to breathe, to “smell the roses,” an invisible force tugs us back to the grind. Why is it so hard to slow down? What does this restlessness reveal about our values? And did the global pause of the COVID-19 pandemic teach us anything lasting about how to live?
The pandemic was a seismic interruption, halting commutes, social events, and even our sense of normalcy. For many, it was the first time in years they had space to reflect on their lives, relationships, and priorities. Practices like meditation, yoga, and journaling surged as people sought meaning amid uncertainty (Lomas et al., 2021). Yet, as the world reopened, many snapped back to the rat race, as if the pause never happened.
This dissertation dives into the tension between our programmed busyness and the call to slow down, using a multidisciplinary lens to explore what life is about and whether we’ve learned from the pandemic’s forced reset. Blending psychology, sociology, philosophy, and mindfulness studies, this work aims to resonate with both the mind and the heart, inviting readers to question their own pace and purpose.
The Rat Race: A Cultural and Psychological Trap
The term “rat race” evokes a hamster wheel: endless motion, no destination. Coined in the mid-20th century, it describes a competitive, often futile pursuit of success defined by external markers—wealth, status, or productivity (Schor, 1992). Sociologically, the rat race is fueled by capitalist systems that prioritize output over well-being. Psychologically, it’s reinforced by conditioning: we’re taught to equate busyness with worth. Studies show that people who appear busy are often perceived as more competent, even when their tasks lack meaning (Gershuny, 2011).
This conditioning starts early. Children are shuttled between school, sports, and extracurriculars, learning that idle time is wasted time. As adults, we internalize this, filling our lives with meetings, notifications, and endless content consumption. Social media, with its infinite scroll, exploits our dopamine-driven need for stimulation, making stillness feel unnatural (Alter, 2017). Even sleep, a biological necessity, is sacrificed—40% of Americans report getting less than seven hours per night, often to “keep up” (Walker, 2017).
Why is slowing down so uncomfortable? Psychologists point to “time anxiety,” a fear that pausing means falling behind (De Graaf, 2018). This anxiety is compounded by social comparison, amplified by platforms like X, where curated lives fuel the pressure to hustle. Philosophically, this reflects a deeper misalignment: we’ve prioritized doing over being, mistaking motion for meaning (Heidegger, 1962). The rat race, then, isn’t just a lifestyle—it’s a cultural and psychological trap that obscures what matters.
The Pandemic Pause: A Forced Reckoning
When COVID-19 swept the globe in 2020, it disrupted the rat race overnight. Lockdowns halted commutes, canceled events, and emptied offices. For many, this was disorienting but also liberating. With nowhere to go, people turned inward. Google Trends data from 2020 shows a spike in searches for “meditation,” “yoga,” and “mindfulness,” reflecting a collective hunger for calm and clarity (Lomas et al., 2021). Anecdotes from X posts during this period echo this: users shared stories of rediscovering hobbies, reconnecting with family, or simply sitting still for the first time in years.
This pause wasn’t just personal—it was philosophical. Existentialist thinkers like Sartre (1943) argue that moments of crisis force us to confront life’s “big questions”: Why am I here? What do I value? The pandemic stripped away distractions, exposing the fragility of our systems and the emptiness of relentless busyness. For some, this led to profound shifts. A 2021 study found that 25% of workers reevaluated their careers during the pandemic, prioritizing flexibility and purpose over pay (Microsoft, 2021). Others embraced mindfulness practices, with apps like Headspace reporting a 50% increase in usage (Headspace, 2020).
Yet, not everyone found peace. For marginalized groups, the pandemic amplified inequities, with essential workers and low-income families facing heightened stress (Blundell et al., 2020). This disparity reminds us that the ability to “slow down” is often a privilege, tied to socioeconomic factors. Still, the global pause offered a rare chance to question the rat race and imagine a different way of living.
The Post-Pandemic Return: Did We Learn Anything?
As vaccines rolled out and economies reopened, the world seemed eager to resume its frantic pace. Hybrid work models gave way to packed schedules, and social media resumed its role as a distraction machine. A 2023 survey found that 60% of Americans felt more stressed post-pandemic than during it, citing a return to “normal” pressures (American Psychological Association, 2023). On X, posts lamenting the return of long commutes and burnout became common, suggesting the lessons of the pause were fading.
Why did we revert? Sociologically, systems resist change. Capitalism thrives on productivity, and workplaces quickly reasserted expectations of availability (Schor, 2020). Psychologically, humans crave familiarity, even when it’s harmful—a phenomenon called “status quo bias” (Kahneman et al., 1991). Philosophically, this points to a deeper issue: our values remain tethered to external markers of success. The pandemic showed us we could slow down, but without sustained effort, old habits reclaim us.
Mindfulness offers a counterpoint. Practices like meditation and yoga, rooted in Buddhist and Hindu traditions, teach us to anchor in the present, resisting the pull of busyness (Kabat-Zinn, 1990). Studies show mindfulness reduces stress and increases life satisfaction, yet only 14% of Americans practice it regularly (Gallup, 2022). This gap suggests a cultural resistance to slowing down, perhaps because it requires confronting uncomfortable truths about our priorities.
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Stepping out of the relentless pace, reclaiming time for reflection and renewal.
Reframing Life: What Matters and How to Live It
What is life about? Philosophers have wrestled with this for centuries. Aristotle’s concept of eudaimonia—a life of flourishing through virtue and purpose—offers a timeless guide (Aristotle, 350 BCE/2009). Modern psychology echoes this, with research on “meaning in life” linking well-being to relationships, purpose, and self-awareness (Steger, 2012). The rat race, with its focus on external rewards, often undermines these.
The pandemic taught us that time is finite and relationships are fragile. Stories of loss and reconnection dominated X during 2020, reminding us that love, community, and presence outweigh status or wealth. Yet, living this truth requires courage. Slowing down means saying no to distractions, setting boundaries, and embracing discomfort. It means valuing being over doing.
Mindfulness practices are a practical start. Meditation, for instance, rewires the brain to reduce reactivity and enhance focus (Davidson & Lutz, 2008). Even five minutes a day can shift how we relate to time. Beyond practices, systemic change is needed: workplaces must prioritize well-being, and policies like universal basic income could reduce the pressure to hustle (Bregman, 2017). Individually, we can ask: What am I chasing, and why? The answers may lead us to redefine success.
Conclusion: A Call to Pause
The rat race is a human construct, not a law of nature. The pandemic proved we can break its rhythm, but it also showed how quickly we revert without intention. Slowing down is hard because it challenges our conditioning, our systems, and our egos. Yet, it’s in the pause—those quiet moments of reflection—that we find clarity about what matters: connection, purpose, and presence.
Have we learned from the pandemic? Some have, embracing mindfulness and reevaluating their lives. Others have not, swept back into the race. The choice is ours. By integrating mindfulness, questioning our values, and advocating for systemic change, we can escape the hamster wheel and live with intention. The roses are waiting—will we stop to smell them?
Crosslinks
- Resonance Metrics as a Spiritual Compass in Times of Uncertainty — A simple daily/weekly dashboard (breath, coherence, relief) to choose go / hold / repair and make room for real pause.
- Divine Timing: A Guide for Souls on the Verge of Awakening — Trades hustle for seasons; schedules reflection windows when the window is actually open.
- From Fear to Freedom: Harnessing Consciousness to Transform Media’s Impact — Attention hygiene and algorithm detox to reclaim hours and nervous-system quiet.
- Finding Meaning in Chaos: Thriving Amidst Constant Change and Conflicting Demands — Triage framework to transmute overload into a single clean next step.
- Codex of the Living Hubs: From Households to National Nodes — Anchors shared sabbath/rituals at home and neighborhood scale so pause becomes social, not solitary.
Glossary
- Eudaimonia: An ancient Greek term for a life of flourishing, achieved through virtue and purpose (Aristotle, 350 BCE/2009).
- Mindfulness: The practice of being fully present in the moment, often through meditation or awareness exercises (Kabat-Zinn, 1990).
- Rat Race: A metaphor for the competitive, often futile pursuit of success defined by external markers like wealth or status (Schor, 1992).
- Status Quo Bias: The tendency to prefer familiar conditions, even when change might be beneficial (Kahneman et al., 1991).
- Time Anxiety: The fear of wasting time or falling behind, often driving relentless busyness (De Graaf, 2018).
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